價值觀的差異

價值觀的差異其實很難解決。

老實說,對他們的要求每一次我也盡量遷就。他們說,新年要回內地拜年,我特意花了僅有的幾天年假陪伴他們;他們說,伯父會在澳門辦壽宴,我怕下班後時間太緊迫所以用了一天補假讓時間比較充裕。可是他們認為這樣並不足夠。

有時候,他們的理所當然令我不敢苟同……

明示我某個星期六應該缺席歷史課去參加堂姪女彌月宴的,是我老爸。

3 thoughts on “價值觀的差異”

  1. 父母大概都是這樣,
    因為大家的價值觀相差廿多三十年,所以永遠找不到契合點,
    他們重視的我們只覺微不足道,
    而我們覺得應該的他們卻覺得匪夷所思,
    這大概就是代溝的現身說法吧~
    所以與父母只能包容

  2. So this is part one.

    Well, sometimes it is the small “measure of control” that parents want to have on us! At least my parents sometime still think it is their rights to run my life and decide things for me (sometimes bluntly).

    Now, here is one thing. While I won’t do what they want, but I will keep trying to communicate with them.

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